Inviting someone to church can be a meaningful and welcoming experience. Here are some simple and friendly steps to help guide the invitation process:
1. Build a Relationship
Before inviting someone, take time to build a connection with them. Whether it’s through casual conversation, shared interests, or spending time together, relationships are the foundation for a genuine invitation.
2. Find the Right Moment
Look for a natural opportunity to invite them. It might be during a conversation about family, personal challenges, or a discussion on faith. Don’t force it—let the invitation come when the time feels right.
3. Be Personal and Genuine
Share why Sunnybrook matters to you. Be honest about what you love about it—whether it's the community, the worship, the teachings, or the way it has impacted your life. People are more likely to say yes when they feel your sincerity.
4. Extend a Warm, Low-Pressure Invitation
Make the invitation as inviting and easy as possible. Don’t make it feel like an obligation—frame it as an opportunity to come together and explore faith. Let them know they’re welcome regardless of where they are in their spiritual journey.
5. Offer to Go Together
Sometimes, the idea of going to a new place can be intimidating. Offering to attend together shows that you’re supporting them. You might say:
6. Provide Details
Make sure they know the time, location, and any other details that might be helpful, such as parking information, children's programs, or what to expect. If your church has a special event coming up (e.g., Christmas, Easter, Skill School, S'More Siouxland), mention that as an extra draw.
7. Follow Up
If they seem interested, follow up with a reminder or a text the day before to let them know you’re still excited to see them there. It shows you're thinking of them and keeps the invitation fresh.
8. Respect Their Response
Not everyone will say yes right away, and that's okay. Be respectful of their decision and don’t take it personally. Keep the door open for future invitations, and always be kind and supportive. Your genuine friendship is often the best witness.
Before inviting someone, take time to build a connection with them. Whether it’s through casual conversation, shared interests, or spending time together, relationships are the foundation for a genuine invitation.
2. Find the Right Moment
Look for a natural opportunity to invite them. It might be during a conversation about family, personal challenges, or a discussion on faith. Don’t force it—let the invitation come when the time feels right.
3. Be Personal and Genuine
Share why Sunnybrook matters to you. Be honest about what you love about it—whether it's the community, the worship, the teachings, or the way it has impacted your life. People are more likely to say yes when they feel your sincerity.
Example: “I’ve really loved attending Sunnybrook—the message is always so uplifting, and I’ve made some great friends there. I’d love for you to join me this Sunday!”
4. Extend a Warm, Low-Pressure Invitation
Make the invitation as inviting and easy as possible. Don’t make it feel like an obligation—frame it as an opportunity to come together and explore faith. Let them know they’re welcome regardless of where they are in their spiritual journey.
Example: “We’d love to have you join us this weekend. No pressure—just come as you are, and I think you’ll enjoy it!”
5. Offer to Go Together
Sometimes, the idea of going to a new place can be intimidating. Offering to attend together shows that you’re supporting them. You might say:
Example: “I’d love to go with you this Sunday, and I can show you around. It’s a great way to get a feel for the church.”
6. Provide Details
Make sure they know the time, location, and any other details that might be helpful, such as parking information, children's programs, or what to expect. If your church has a special event coming up (e.g., Christmas, Easter, Skill School, S'More Siouxland), mention that as an extra draw.
Example: “Our services are at 8:00, 9:30, & 11:00am on Sundays, and we have a great kids’ program if that’s something you’re interested in. We can go to which ever service works for you.”
7. Follow Up
If they seem interested, follow up with a reminder or a text the day before to let them know you’re still excited to see them there. It shows you're thinking of them and keeps the invitation fresh.
Example: “Just a reminder—I’m looking forward to seeing you at church tomorrow! Let me know if you need anything.”
8. Respect Their Response
Not everyone will say yes right away, and that's okay. Be respectful of their decision and don’t take it personally. Keep the door open for future invitations, and always be kind and supportive. Your genuine friendship is often the best witness.
